If we have a desire to be successful in anything, be it friendships, family, personal budgets, home maintenance, study and learning, or any other objective, we have to realize there is a measure of planning necessary to achieve progress.
One of the adventurebolt insights that I have recently been able to see immediate benefits of, is an increase in intentional planning, even each day. Over the past few weeks, I have been going in to the office early to just look at tasks that need to be accomplished, prioritize them, and then set them up on a simple checklist to be crossed off as they are done. Simple? Yes. Easy? Not really.
For example, take a few moments to think of what projects you may be wanting to do around the house that you have had in mind for awhile, but never really got around to doing.
1) First, write down all the projects or activities you need to do, as many as you can think of in five minutes.
2) Then, prioritize them according to which one should be accomplished first, second and so on. DON'T make the mistake of prioritizing them according to which ones you would PREFER to start on, as opposed to which ones SHOULD be accomplished first. This is a big lesson in disciplining yourself to do things you don't want to do, but that need to be done anyway. To be fair to yourself, if there is no urgency between several items on your list, then allow yourself to put them in an order you would prefer, but then STICK TO THE LIST.
3) Then, DO NOT MOVE ON TO THE NEXT ITEM UNTIL YOU CAN CROSS OFF THE CURRENT ONE. This is critical. It's so simple, but it can be the most difficult aspect to do. Force yourself to follow this principle. Do not allow yourself to get distracted by lesser issues or interruptions. If you do get off track or interrupted, don't continue with anything else until you go back and finish your current item.
This whole process takes time. There is a measure of planning that should go into each day. If time is more valuable than money (as I have mentioned elsewhere), why do we carelessly "spend" it without any planning? What I like about this insight is that the benefits of this process can be realized immediately, and with continued practice, the benefits increase with each success.